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HOW TO DEAL WITH TOXIC PEOPLE

Wanna know how to deal with toxic people? Well, we first have to ask what our definition of “toxic” is and what’s causing us to see them as negative and toxic in the first place.

If I asked you “who’s in control of your happiness?”, what would you say?

You, right?

Except if someone else’s words or actions can instantly put you into a negative state and frame of mind, who’s really in control of your happiness?

It’s them.

They have the power to change the way you feel with their words and actions. Your happiness is in the palm of their hand.

Wanna know how to deal with toxic people? Well, we first have to ask what our definition of “toxic” is and what’s causing us to see them as negative and toxic in the first place.

If I asked you “who’s in control of your happiness?”, what would you say?

You, right?

Except if someone else’s words or actions can instantly put you into a negative state and frame of mind, who’s really in control of your happiness?

It’s them.

They have the power to change the way you feel with their words and actions. Your happiness is in the palm of their hand.

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SO HOW DO WE DEAL WITH NEGATIVE PEOPLE?

The key is to understand what “meanings” we’re putting behind things that are causing us to get offended.

If I made the statement “I have a cheese sandwich”, would you be offended?

Then if I made the statement “You’re a jerk, you don’t know what you’re talking about and you’re wasting your life”, would you be offended?

What’s the difference between the two?

In both examples, my mouth would have moved, and sounds would have come out. That’s what happened.

The difference is the MEANINGS that you’ve created behind the statements.

You’d have taken the sounds that came out my mouth, run them against your past experiences and stories, then made the decision that the second statement is “offensive”.

Except it’s based entirely on our individual past experiences. A statement that offends one person, may not offend another.

So what’s really happening is when “someone offends us”, it’s NOTHING TO DO WITH THAT PERSON.

The key is to understand what “meanings” we’re putting behind things that are causing us to get offended.

If I made the statement “I have a cheese sandwich”, would you be offended?

Then if I made the statement “You’re a jerk, you don’t know what you’re talking about and you’re wasting your life”, would you be offended?

What’s the difference between the two?

In both examples, my mouth would have moved, and sounds would have come out. That’s what happened.

The difference is the MEANINGS that you’ve created behind the statements.

You’d have taken the sounds that came out my mouth, run them against your past experiences and stories, then made the decision that the second statement is “offensive”.

Except it’s based entirely on our individual past experiences. A statement that offends one person, may not offend another.

So what’s really happening is when “someone offends us”, it’s NOTHING TO DO WITH THAT PERSON.

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Who’s in control of our own perception of other things or people in the world? Ourself.

The person is only “toxic” or “negative”, if we’re CHOOSING to perceive them as toxic or negative. We’re choosing to offend ourselves and using their actions as an excuse, we’re choosing to put ourself into a negative state.

We can’t control what someone else does or says, but we are in complete control of what meaning we attach to it. We can control how we choose to perceive it.

If you own this fact, you take back complete control of your own happiness. NOBODY can offend you, disrupt your flow, or put you into a negative state of mind no matter what they do or say.

Because you can choose to just let go of being offended by it. You’re in control of whether you want to be offended.

If someone else can offend you, they’re commanding your life. You’re a slave to them, a puppet they control.

With one single sound out their mouth, they have the power to completely change your energy, your day, and your life.

But if you choose to let go of being right, let go of justifying, let go of constructing meanings about yourself based on your perception of what they do or say… Then you get back complete control of your happiness, and your life.

Stop trying to be right, start being happy regardless of what happens people do or say. There’s no such thing as toxic, it only exists in your own mind.